Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Bullying: Not your traditional point of view

A few days ago, I was added to a Facebook group called "Parents Come Together to Stop Bullying". I didn't ask to be in this group, but apparently anyone can add you to a group because, stupid me, I forgot to edit those settings.

Whoever added me to that group honestly didn't know me well enough. You see, I was the bully in my childhood years. Don't get me wrong, I was bullied and teased- because I dressed like a boy (due to my father raising me until I was 10), my "accent", and the fact that my family was multi-racial...among other reasons. I decided to become the bully. Know what? People backed off.

So, what do I think about everyone trying to "stop" normal bullying?

You're fucking pussies, that's what you are.

Let's see....bullying did me good. It made me stronger. Sure, I hated being bullied, but you know what? Because I was bullied, I actually LEARNED how to interact with different social groups, AND how to deal with people and negativity. When kids are bullied, they grow up and they know how to DEAL WITH THINGS.

That's why it pisses me off when I see parents going "OMG MY KID WAS TEASED AT SCHOOL TODAY!" Know what, put your big girl panties on and deal with it! Better yet, cry me a river, build a bridge, and get the fuck over it! That's why your whiny ass kids grow up to be pussies and give excuses for why they can't achieve anything. Don't get me wrong, EXTREME bullying is different, but just normal bullying to me is perfectly fine.

Now I hear that they are going to take the "competition" out of sports, and ban "winning and losing", so ALL kids feel like they've won. Know what? When they get out in the real world, they're gonna cry a lot when they find out that the world and the universe doesn't play by their rules.

So, what I'm basically saying is that normal old bullying is character building. Sure, people were bullied, but you turned out just fine, didn't ya? And now you know how to handle negative situations when they come at you. It's a teaching tool. Learn like I did and start BEING the bully, and people will leave you the hell alone and give you a moment's peace!

You pussies better get used to being bullied, because if you don't learn how to handle it when you're a kid, you're gonna have to be prepared to handle a whole liftetime of it later!

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