I made a deal with my good friend Brandy that if she can blog, so can I. Haven't been on here in a few months. Time to catch up!
Weddings can be so very stressful. They say that when you plan a wedding, you know who your real friends are. I never really put stock into that, because the idea of it was absurd to me.....until I started planning my wedding.
You see, one of my bridesmaids was my friend Amanda. I really loved that woman. She started being BFF's with my ex. Now, that's usually cool with me, but considering somehow he started knowing every little detail of my wedding (one of the reasons why I have been mysteriously absent on my blog) and he's known to play the victim oh-so-well, I had a slight problem with it.
Amanda posts on her facebook, "Hey, Kev, everyone thinks we're sleeping together, lol"
Mind you, she didn't post it on his timeline where I couldn't see it (because I blocked him- she tagged his name, it won't give me the link for that same reason) or even texted him this...she posted it on her own timeline to where everyone could see it- including me. So, I called her out on it. "I do", I replied.
I get a flurry of texts from her saying he was a good friend, if she had to stop being friends with people because they were exes, she wouldn't have any, etc. etc....and tells me that if I think that lowly of her that I should just find a new bridesmaid.
Now here's where she got me fucked up at. I never thought lowly of her- in fact, I thought it was below her to hang out with such people. Secondly, if she thinks it's so low to sleep with him, why is she even friends with someone if it's so "low"? And last, she accused me on more than one occasion of sleeping with her ex, Barry (sorry, but he's gross, so um...ew. No.), but I vehemently refused it....it was a legitimate question, and I didn't get offended by her badgering me about it. But when the tables are TURNED, she got all huffy about it. Seems to me that she did sleep with him, since she's so offended. After she slept with Kev's BFF, I kinda figured out she's the kind of girl who will open her legs to men who give her a bit of attention. I wished her well on her way, and she hasn't spoken to me since.
Good riddance, I say. Jason said he really didn't like her anyway. :/
Weddings can be so very stressful. They say that when you plan a wedding, you know who your real friends are. I never really put stock into that, because the idea of it was absurd to me.....until I started planning my wedding.
You see, one of my bridesmaids was my friend Amanda. I really loved that woman. She started being BFF's with my ex. Now, that's usually cool with me, but considering somehow he started knowing every little detail of my wedding (one of the reasons why I have been mysteriously absent on my blog) and he's known to play the victim oh-so-well, I had a slight problem with it.
Amanda posts on her facebook, "Hey, Kev, everyone thinks we're sleeping together, lol"
Mind you, she didn't post it on his timeline where I couldn't see it (because I blocked him- she tagged his name, it won't give me the link for that same reason) or even texted him this...she posted it on her own timeline to where everyone could see it- including me. So, I called her out on it. "I do", I replied.
I get a flurry of texts from her saying he was a good friend, if she had to stop being friends with people because they were exes, she wouldn't have any, etc. etc....and tells me that if I think that lowly of her that I should just find a new bridesmaid.
Now here's where she got me fucked up at. I never thought lowly of her- in fact, I thought it was below her to hang out with such people. Secondly, if she thinks it's so low to sleep with him, why is she even friends with someone if it's so "low"? And last, she accused me on more than one occasion of sleeping with her ex, Barry (sorry, but he's gross, so um...ew. No.), but I vehemently refused it....it was a legitimate question, and I didn't get offended by her badgering me about it. But when the tables are TURNED, she got all huffy about it. Seems to me that she did sleep with him, since she's so offended. After she slept with Kev's BFF, I kinda figured out she's the kind of girl who will open her legs to men who give her a bit of attention. I wished her well on her way, and she hasn't spoken to me since.
Good riddance, I say. Jason said he really didn't like her anyway. :/
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